That is more than my people would do for me. Ah, correction, my former people. Though they would also not do as much for anyone other than their most beloved icon.

[Yeah, he has a lot of baggage about how Asgard puts others into boxes of "flawed but fixable" and "irredeemable monster". And that as soon as he could be written off as not one of them, he was.]

Figuring it out yourself... We are never the best judges of our own health. If you do not involve others, you may start making mistakes, that build upon each other.